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OK. Here goes. I don’t claim absolute knowledge or wisdom. I know what I know, and like what I like. I accept other
BDSM
OK. Let’s start with BDSM 101. And it’s not as clear cut as just B.D.S.M. There’s individual pages dedicated, but this is a basic overview…
- B Bondage - Simples really. Someone gets tied up. There’s enjoyment in being tied up, and there’s enjoyment in tying someone up. It can be part of a sexual act, or not.
- D Discipline - Spanking, or some other form of “chastisement” - can be physical or mental. Again with the sex thing, can come with it, or without.
- SM Sado-Masochism - Pain games - The Sadist applies it, the masochist gets pleasure from receiving it. Sex may, or may not rise it’s ugly head, and it is too complicated to describe adequately in on paragraph.
- DS - Dom and sub -Domination and submission. One person is the boss, the other is the sub. Sometimes called EROTIC POWER EXCHANGE (or EPE), it can be a date night thing, a bedroom thing, or consume your entire life. Again, one paragraph doesn’t do it justice.
- Fetishism - other “kinky” things. Can include stockings, rubber, being peed on, Transvestitism, etc., etc. I’ve included it here, because it quite often (but not always) comes along with BDSM.
The most common concept to get your head around is, you don’t have to be into every aspect of the “Scene” as it’s called. You can be a sub, but not a masochist, A sadist, and not a Dom, Into rubber, and not into anything else, and be a transvestite, etc.
I like to think that I’m an all encompassing “Dom” and accept people for what they are. BUT. To put labels on me, here’s a few of the things class myself as:
- Dominant - till the day I die baby.
- Bondage Enthusiast - Rope, leather, belt, chains. Did I mention rope?
- Disciplinarian - I spank naughty girls, and have rules that you abide by, or feel the wrath of Asmodeus…
- Sadist - ONLY with consenting masochists.
- Fetishist(?) - I adore retro, stockings, heels, some leather look, some PVC, but I’m not “hung up” on one specific thing…
I’m in the process of writing additional pages for each of these elements, so feel free to pop back any time.
Click on the BDSM button at the top of the page, and select the sub section or click on the buttons below…
Spanking
S&M
D/s
Discipline
Fetish
Bondage